A crib sheet for connecting:
1. Relaxation & Confidence
2. Eye contact, lots of it. Deeply.
3. Confident strong but not too strong handshake
4. Light touching (back patting, shoulder tapping)
5. Relate the conversation to something personal and make sure you have something in common
6. Connect with the person with something in common or a mutual friend (ideal – as you breed the trust of your mutual friend)
7. Offer ideas/help/suggestions/way to make money/potential date…offer something of perceived value.
8. synchronize body language lightly, simply parallel what they are doing so you seen in sync
9. make yourself seem cool, stand out a bit, be the center of attention
10. simply say hello with confidence
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